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8 BAD THINGS THAT HAPPEN TO UNEMPLOYED GRADUATES

1. Other people shortly graduate and replace them as more fresher, able & newbie industry professionals. 

2. Staying at home makes one hopeless, weary & sometimes scared of what their life will turn out to be. They soon loose that image of themselves as successful in life. They begin to doubt themselves. 

3. Depression, fear & hopelessness also get combined with stress & frustration. Some have been living in GC & related areas for their Diploma/degree. So now they have to return home where they’re usually treated badly because they come home broke & unemployed.

4. Family and friends lose respect & hope on them. If it’s a young woman, she’d usually be relegated to the status of looking after her siblings children ~ washing them & readying them for school. A young man becomes the family errand boy.

5. Women usually try to “date up” meaning dating guys with cars, jobs and pay usually hoping for partnership in this life thing. 

6. Men also try to “date up” as well. Usually dating either an older or employed younger woman they’d scrap from. Either way, it’s nothing that either wanted.

7. Risky behaviors like drinking, drugs & even making wrong friends are high because they actually provide a sense of relief sometimes. That’s why most unemployed people party, smoke & drink a lot too. 

8. Boyfriend/girlfriend soon becomes abusive. So usually unemployed graduates will be in emotionally, physically or verbally abusive relationships. Combine the fear, depression, hopelessness, stress & frustration of being unemployed with that of abuse.

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